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What Facebook Dad Did Right, And Wrong

Friday, February 24th, 2012

Facebook Dad

We would embed the video but we have policies against IT on tech violence.

After 28 million views and countless spoofs and comments, Tommy Jordan’s very public discipline of his daughter has captured the national conversation on raising your teen online.

Mr. Jordan’s rant and subsequent laptop-cide have prompted both kudos and outrage from all over the country and the world, but we see a few things that Facebook Dad did right and a few things he did wrong.

What He Did Right

  1. He monitored his daughter’s Facebook account and held her accountable for her behavior.
  2. He created a clear set of consequences for abusing Internet privileges.
  3. He was involved in his daughter’s online life and sought to take steps to correct what he viewed as damaging behavior to his daughter’s reputation.

What He Did Wrong

  1. He punished his daughter for cussing publicly by cussing at her, publicly. Parents need to emulate the behavior they want to see in their kids.
  2. He punished his daughter for taking family problems public on Facebook, by taking their family problems public on Facebook. See above.
  3. Wanton destruction of technology. Granted, ending the video by plugging the laptop full of hollow-point rounds undoubtedly had the visceral impact that he desired, but we have to take issue with both the waste of something that could have been useful to someone, and removing technology from a teen as a way of punishment. Removing technology from teens in order to punish them for misuse of the technology seems like a simple solution to a simple problem, but the punishment might not fit the crime. After all, computers and the Internet are learning tools in addition to being entertainment, and removing the child’s access to both could negatively effect the child’s ability to learn, perform well in school, and thus the child’s college and career prospects down the line.

One has to imagine that Facebook Dad has softened a bit on denying access to the Internet for the foreseeable future, and we hope that he considers the use of parental control software so that he can take a more effective, less drastic measure like restricting access to Facebook without removing access to the Internet altogether.


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California Attorney General forges deal on mobile app privacy protections (Podcast)

Thursday, February 23rd, 2012

California Attorney General Kamala Harris announces app privacy deal (Credit: California Department of Justice)

On Wednesday, California Attorney General Kamala Harris announced an agreement with Apple, Google, Microsoft, Amazon, Hewlett-Packard, and Research In Motion that would require app developers to abide by California’s existing privacy law.  That deal, according to CNET news, “will require developers to include privacy policies in their apps so that users will be informed about the data that apps will access, use, and share before they download the apps.”

In a press release, the Attorney General’s office said that agreement brings the industry “in line with a California law requiring mobile apps that collect personal information to have a privacy policy.”

To learn more about the deal, Larry spoke by phone with Ms. Harris shortly after the announcement.

Listen here

Read more on my CNET blog

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Pseudoscience, technopanic and online youth

Sunday, February 19th, 2012

Pseudoscience sculpture by Mihail Chemiakin (Photo by Larry Magid)

There’s an amazing group of sculptures in a park near the Kremlin in Moscow, called “Children are victims of adult vices” by Mihail Chemiakin.

This particular sculpture is “pseudoscience,” which is relevant for the talks that I (along with my ConnectSafely.org co-director Anne Collier) will deliver this week at the Safer Internet Day forum here in Moscow. Some adults have perpetuated myths both about dangers to young people online and the way youth treat each other in social media. Panicking over cyberbullying, sexting, predation and other risks is a form of pseudoscience that hurts young people. That’s not to say that these risks don’t exist, but that kids are far more resilient that many of us give them credit for. To ignore the growing research about youth risk is, indeed, an example of of pseudoscience. Scroll down for links to articles about real science on youth risk.

The other vices depicted in sculpture are drug addiction, prostitution, theft, alcoholism, ignorance, indifference, violence, sadism, lack of memory, exploitation of child labor, poverty and war.  For more, see this on Wikipedia.

Mihail Chemiakin's "Children are victims of adult vices" taken by Lvova Anastasiya & downloaded from Wikipedia Commons

For more

Internet fact sheet from the Crimes against Children Research Center

Predator panic making a comeback

Let’s not create a cyberbullying panic

With new data we can stop the teen sexting panic

Why technopanics are bad (Anne Collier)

Why do we always sell the next generation short (Adam Thierer)

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From Russia with Deja Vu About American Child Protection and Censorship

Saturday, February 18th, 2012

This post appeared in the San Jose Mercury News on February 13, 2012

by Larry Magid

I’m writing from Moscow, where I spoke at Russia’s Safer Internet Day conference last week. Safer Internet Day, which originated in Europe, is celebrated in much of the world, though there are relatively few events in the United States.

While most recent American Internet safety conferences focus on digital citizenship issues such as preventing cyberbullying, most speakers at the Russian event talked about protecting children from undesirable content. There was, however, one panel on digital literacy where my ConnectSafely.org co-director Anne Collier talked about strategies for helping kids learn to treat each other respectfully and to protect their online reputations.

Russia is behind the United States and much of Europe in Internet usage, but it’s growing quickly. In 2009, the World Bank reported Internet penetration in the Russian Federation at 42 percent but the growth curve is impressive. In 2006, it was only 18 percent. One speaker at the conference said it’s now over 50 percent, with even higher usage among youth.

Still, the Internet is new to many people in this former Soviet capitol and it’s common to be afraid of things that are unfamiliar. So my main role as a speaker was to try to put some of the safety concerns into perspective.

I reminded delegates that there was a time when people bought short-term life insurance before they got on an airplane. Those passengers were probably less worried about their car crashing on the way to the airport, even though then, as now, driving was more dangerous than flying.

It’s a bit like that with technology. Bullying, pornography and child molestation have been around forever. But because widespread Internet use is new here, I heard politicians and others worrying aloud about the increased danger of the Net, even though American and European data show that most risks to kids are actually lower online than in the “real world,” and that sexual crimes against children have actually decreased by 58 percent between 1992 and 2008, the very years that huge numbers of U.S. kids got online. I’m not saying the Internet is the reason for the decline, but it certainly didn’t usher in any increase, as some feared it would.

One reason it’s important to put the fears into perspective is because there are lots of people in Russia, and in the United States as well, who want to put limits on Internet content in the name of protecting children. In fact, there is a law on the books in Russia that’s supposed to take effect in September that would require websites to classify themselves by age ratings so Internet service providers could block kids from content that would harm their “health and development.”

It’s not clear even to Internet professionals I spoke with here how this law is supposed to be implemented and whether it will apply just to Russian-based sites, or if ISPs will be required to filter out access to international sites that aren’t rated. One of the criteria bans kids’ access to images of sexual relations between people of the opposite sex. Apparently, the drafters forgot to include images of people of the same sex.

There were also people at the conference proposing that ISPs should be required to block access to certain types of illegal content. If this sounds familiar, think back just a couple of weeks ago to our debate around a pair of U.S. bills that would have done just that for sites with alleged pirated content.

Illegal content would, of course, include child pornography, even though images of children being abused already are illegal in Russia. But it could also include sites that advocate the use of drugs or alcohol, gambling sites and sites that advocate “extremism.” That last category is particularly bothersome to one political activist I spoke with who worries it could be used to block sites that advocate demonstrations against Prime Minister Vladimir Putin or some future regime.

Other countries do ban some extremist content. France and Germany, have laws that prohibit the display of Nazi memorabilia or advocacy of anti-Semitism. Depicting a swastika on an American website may be offensive to most of us, but it’s not illegal.

As I listened to simultaneous translation of the debates, I was reminded of the battles we’ve had in the United States over the past 15 years or so. In 1996, Congress passed the Communications Decency Act, which would have made it a crime for anyone to post content that kids could access that was “patently offensive as measured by contemporary community standards.”

That was mostly overturned by the Supreme Court, and a somewhat less restrictive follow-up attempt, the Children’s Online Privacy Protection Act, was overturned by a federal circuit court. The Supreme Court refused to hear an appeal, which effectively killed that bill as well. We do have a law, the Children’s Internet Protection Act, that requires schools and libraries that receive certain federal funding to use filters and other measures to protect children from inappropriate content. But that doesn’t prevent the posting of the content and only applies to federally subsidized schools and libraries.

One speaker at the conference suggested that sites that promote homosexuality should be blocked, but there is no such provision in the current law and this opinion was not widely shared by others I spoke with. Still, it illustrates how censorship can include value judgments that are not necessarily shared by all members of a society.

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Filters and monitoring: panacea or band-aid?

Friday, February 17th, 2012

One of my talks at Russia’s Safer Internet Day conference, focusing on the role of filters in protecting children:

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Reporting Inappropriate Behavior – McAfee Social Networking Guide

Tuesday, February 14th, 2012

Safe Eyes Guide to Social NetworkingEncourage Kids to Report Inappropriate Behavior

Encourage your kids to come to you for help when they are being cyberbullied or have encountered online predators.

Do your best to establish trust and make sure they are comfortable coming to you with their problems. If for any reason they are uncomfortable speaking with you, tell them to speak with a trusted adult — an aunt, uncle, teacher, or older sibling — to lend an ear.

Be sure your teen knows how to report abuse or inappropriate behavior to social networking sites. With Facebook, for example, they can send an email to abuse@facebook.com.

McAfee Social Networking Guide is available at: http://mcaf.ee/xzq1p


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Additional Resources – McAfee Social Networking Guide

Monday, February 13th, 2012

Resources Additional Safety Tips

Social networking sites are a great way for kids to connect with each other, make new friends, and expand their world in a positive way. Most of these popular websites care about the safety of your children and offer stringent privacy policies and valuable tips for parents who want to make sure their kids’ online experience is enjoyable and free of problems.

Facebook

• “Working Together to Keep You Secure” by Jeff Williams
Reporting abuse
Privacy

Google+
User conduct and content policy
• Reporting abuse
Privacy policy

Club Penguin
Club Penguin’s safety measures

Webkinz
Parent’s area
General privacy policy

Resources – Security Software Checklist

Another way to safeguard your family against threats that may arise from social networking sites is to install appropriate parental controls software. Here’s a checklist of features to look for:

Web blocking prevents your children from viewing inappropriate content

Program blocking blocks games, peer-to-peer file sharing, or any other program you specify

Social networking features record postings of inappropriate or personal information and conversations to help determine if cyberbullying activity is taking place

Explicit Lyrics Prevent previewing and downloading explicit material through iTunes

Time limits help you manage the amount of time your children spend online

Instant Message features monitor and record instant messaging (IM) chats to help you find out if your children are engaging in inappropriate dialog with friends or people they’ve met online

Usage reports provide you with a complete view of all Internet and IM activity, which you can use as conversation starters to educate your children

Email alerts notify you when your children attempt to access objectionable material

YouTube filtering enables you to block objectionable videos while allowing your children to enjoy other videos

 

 

McAfee Social Networking Guide is avaiable at: http://mcaf.ee/l581v


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Amazing Mentor! Spotlight Interview with Jeff Sutphen

Monday, February 13th, 2012

Note from Mary Kay – Amazing Kids! is a non-profit organization that does a wonderful job of focusing on all the great things that kids can do, are doing and are capable of doing. I particularly like that they shine a spotlight on young artists, writers and philanthropists. I’m appreciative…
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Instagram – Is It Okay for Kids? What Parents Need to Know

Sunday, February 12th, 2012

In many ways, and without reinventing the wheel, Instagram is changing the way people share photos with each other. The mobile app, which is only available on the iPhone, is steadily growing in popularity among the kid and teen crowds, causing parents to take notice and ask, what exactly is…
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Facebook isn’t addictive — it just makes people feel happy

Saturday, February 11th, 2012

A lot has been written about “Facebook addiction.” Indeed some press coverage of a recent study from the University of Chicago suggests that “Facebook and Twitter are more addictive than cigarettes or alcohol.”  But a new study published in the journal Cyberpsychology, Behavior, and Social Networking puts a positive spin on the issue. Could it be that, just like eating chocolate, Facebook and Twitter are simply fun and pleasurable?

The word “addictive” doesn’t appear once in the report, Why Is Facebook So Successful? Psychophysiological Measures Describe a Core Flow State While Using Facebook,” (PDF) but it does point out that “ the successful spread of SNSs (social networking services)  might be associated with a specific positive affective state experienced by users when they use their SNSs account.”

The researchers analyzed users’ skin conductance, blood volume pulse, electroencephalogram (brain waves), respiratory activity and pupil dilation in 30 healthy subjects “during a 3-minute exposure to a slide show of natural panoramas (relaxation condition),” and “the subject’s personal Facebook account” and found that Facebook use correlated with responses from people who are in a positive emoitonal state.  The technical term, surprisingly, is “flow,” which according to the researchers occurs when “people in free-time activities that did not seem to follow the utility-centered motivational theories of the time” experienced “intense engagement and enjoyment.”

So, is this a bad thing? I suppose some people could interpret anthing positive that people return to often as addictive, but if “intense engagement and emotional enjoyment” is a bad, thing than we have to worry more than just Facebook, Twitter and chocolate. We would also have to include great works of art, beautiful music, great toys, award-winning movies, attractive people and anything else that brings us pleasure.

Disclosure: Larry Magid is co-director of ConnectSafely.org, a non-profit Internet safety organization that receives financial support from Facebook and other Internet companies.

 

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